I want a guy who woos a girl but doesn't forget his pride. A guy who treats me like a queen but remembers he's the king. You could spend on me all you want or tell me you're broke. Just don't depend on me all the time because i'll take your pants and put them on and i may not know i'm doing it. I want a man who dosen't start what he can't finish. Don't pick me up while you're wooing me if you know it's all going to stop when we get into a relationship. Say it how it is and not how it should be.
I want a man who lets me be in control. Don't get me wrong, i'm not in control, he just lets me think i am. Don't let me walk all over you and then later on in the relationship, you complain about me not respecting you. Sweetie, you give me a footmat, don't complain when i dust my feet on it. You want respect? Show me who's boss. Show me you rule your world and you want me to be a part of it. Show me you respect me well enough to want me to be a part of your world. Don't worship me like i'm your god and then later expect to rule me. You gat it twisted honey.
But wait! Because i let you control me, don't et it into your head that you own me. I am a rare gem and i am not afraid to make you beg.
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Thursday, March 12, 2009
The voodoo that you do
Rabbit feet, lucky socks, red candles, and spells are just the beginning when it comes to magic. Superstitions are notions strongly followed because, due to some coincidence of sort, they are believed to be true. Despite advance in technology, superstitions and myths continue to play a major role in our society today.
Superstitions range from good luck gotten from hitting one’s right leg against a stone, to the seven years of bad luck gotten from breaking a mirror. Tales go as far back as ancient Egypt, where either good luck or ill luck befell people because they either followed a superstition or did not. For example, cats were seen as holy in ancient Egypt, any person that mistreated a cat, was believed to be doomed to Hades for eternity. On the other hand, if a person treated a stray cat with enough respect, whatever venture the person went into always flourished. Although scientists have proven these tales of good fortune and ill luck to be nothing but coincidences or myths, superstitions are still being followed religiously and these hold numerous effects.
Belief in magic can be harmful to a society. It can bring about an astonishing fear of the person being believed to deal in this magic. Using the Salem witch-hunt as an example: the people used different ignorant tests to determine if a person was a witch and if the person failed these tests, the person was sentenced to death by burning at the stake. They did not understand medicine, and saw it as the devil’s tool and as such, resorted to killing off anyone that showed signs they considered supernatural.
Furthermore, superstitions can be harmful to a person. They can cause a person to be restricted. For example, if a person believes the superstition that says seeing a black cat cross a road means bad luck for the rest of that day. This could cause the person to remain indoors to try to avoid the full brunt of the bad luck. This person is throwing away a day full of possibilities just because of a superstition. In addition, a superstition states that if you break a mirror, it brings along seven years of bad luck. If a person breaks a mirror and due to an unforeseen coincidence, gets bad news later on, this person might actually believe that he or her seven years of bad luck has begun. A weak-minded person might resort to suicide so as not to experience the alleged seven years of bad luck.
On the other hand, belief in magic can be useful to a person as they can bring in profit. Fortunetellers, palm readers, and seers earn a living by feeding off peoples thirst for magic. Just how true these readings are, is unknown but there are recorded cases of people who claim to have had everything predicted, come true. Producers have realized that movies, series, and books based on magic tend to get more audience. One of the highest grossing book series, Harry potter, was based on magic and although initially intended for kids aged between seven and fourteen, it ended up appealing to readers of all ages because it satisfied the average human’s thirst for magic and the unexplainable.
In addition, superstitions can be useful to a person as it can help boost optimism. It has been scientifically proven that just going about a day with a positive mental attitude can make all the difference. It can boost the flow of blood in the body and makes one healthier. A superstition states that finding a lost penny is a sign of good fortune to come. If a person that believes in this superstition finds a lost penny, this person expects a flood of good luck to come their way and as such, looks for the unseen benefit in every cloud from then on; this will boost the person mentally and in the end, physically.
Conclusively, superstitions and belief in magic have always been around and will always be around. They have acted as determining factors in elections, mergers, and even contracts. Although we may critically analyze them with science and find wanting in terms of explanations, we will continue to throw the salt over our shoulders and avoid walking under that ladder. Superstitions and myths have both negative and positive effects and neither outweighs the other. In the end, it is all about the fact that these are beliefs we are not yet willing to part with.
Superstitions range from good luck gotten from hitting one’s right leg against a stone, to the seven years of bad luck gotten from breaking a mirror. Tales go as far back as ancient Egypt, where either good luck or ill luck befell people because they either followed a superstition or did not. For example, cats were seen as holy in ancient Egypt, any person that mistreated a cat, was believed to be doomed to Hades for eternity. On the other hand, if a person treated a stray cat with enough respect, whatever venture the person went into always flourished. Although scientists have proven these tales of good fortune and ill luck to be nothing but coincidences or myths, superstitions are still being followed religiously and these hold numerous effects.
Belief in magic can be harmful to a society. It can bring about an astonishing fear of the person being believed to deal in this magic. Using the Salem witch-hunt as an example: the people used different ignorant tests to determine if a person was a witch and if the person failed these tests, the person was sentenced to death by burning at the stake. They did not understand medicine, and saw it as the devil’s tool and as such, resorted to killing off anyone that showed signs they considered supernatural.
Furthermore, superstitions can be harmful to a person. They can cause a person to be restricted. For example, if a person believes the superstition that says seeing a black cat cross a road means bad luck for the rest of that day. This could cause the person to remain indoors to try to avoid the full brunt of the bad luck. This person is throwing away a day full of possibilities just because of a superstition. In addition, a superstition states that if you break a mirror, it brings along seven years of bad luck. If a person breaks a mirror and due to an unforeseen coincidence, gets bad news later on, this person might actually believe that he or her seven years of bad luck has begun. A weak-minded person might resort to suicide so as not to experience the alleged seven years of bad luck.
On the other hand, belief in magic can be useful to a person as they can bring in profit. Fortunetellers, palm readers, and seers earn a living by feeding off peoples thirst for magic. Just how true these readings are, is unknown but there are recorded cases of people who claim to have had everything predicted, come true. Producers have realized that movies, series, and books based on magic tend to get more audience. One of the highest grossing book series, Harry potter, was based on magic and although initially intended for kids aged between seven and fourteen, it ended up appealing to readers of all ages because it satisfied the average human’s thirst for magic and the unexplainable.
In addition, superstitions can be useful to a person as it can help boost optimism. It has been scientifically proven that just going about a day with a positive mental attitude can make all the difference. It can boost the flow of blood in the body and makes one healthier. A superstition states that finding a lost penny is a sign of good fortune to come. If a person that believes in this superstition finds a lost penny, this person expects a flood of good luck to come their way and as such, looks for the unseen benefit in every cloud from then on; this will boost the person mentally and in the end, physically.
Conclusively, superstitions and belief in magic have always been around and will always be around. They have acted as determining factors in elections, mergers, and even contracts. Although we may critically analyze them with science and find wanting in terms of explanations, we will continue to throw the salt over our shoulders and avoid walking under that ladder. Superstitions and myths have both negative and positive effects and neither outweighs the other. In the end, it is all about the fact that these are beliefs we are not yet willing to part with.
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