Yesterday night, I let my mother talk me into trying this new diet drink she got. Tasted good but this morning, I had a terrible tummy ache. I'm sure if I gave you three guesses, you would figure out where I was typing this post on the second guess.
For as long as I can remember, I had an impression of what I wanted to do in future. This dream is not something I mention to a lot of people. Even my mum had no idea. It however involved reaching the highest peak of study and teaching in a prestigious university.
I have parents that excelled in their chosen fields and this makes them believe they know what's best for me. Maybe they do. However, they do not know what will make me happy, I do. The only problem is that I cannot stand up to my parents.
It funny how in every exam I take, I am not trying to keep up with my peers. I am busy trying to keep up with my parents.
When I have kids, I'm going to tell them to set a bar for themselves because trying to reach the bar my parents set for me might just kill me.
7 comments:
At least you realize this, I hope you're able to use it for your own life so your children can learn from example. All the best with your dreams.
That's a wrong headed attitude o!
Some kids need2b pushed while others need2b HELD BACK lest they burn out.
If my mum had told me to "set my own standards" I would have set it incredible low so that I can clear it by a mile :)
You let them set their own standards. It does not mean you do not guide them. You guide them but refrain from imposing on them.
Sorry to hear that.You have your point but at the same time, I agree with Enoch.Some kids really need to be pushed.All the best and Merry Christmas. ;)
Great Thoughts as that of my a year back,
But believe me if your thoughts were going to change soon,
Hope my words won't get true.
Really great post, gave me a flashback of my life.
You were very interesting,
Just Enjoy Your Life...
Remove the 'If' in second line from your mind,
Whay don't you try some good templates for your blog.
Being committed to learning IS NOT the same as being someone else's academic pet. Do your thing. So long as you do it with style and courage, your parents will eventually say, it was all their doing anyway!
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